Resources
My goal here is to provide YOU with as much knowledge I can so that you feel confident to make decisions that are the best for you. I want to provide a consistently growing and up to date resource list for anything and everything sex and relationship related. Now hold onto your panties because this is going to get OVERWHELMING, but I promise that I will do my best to keep it organized, categorized, and relevant.
This is by no means an all-inclusive list and if you have recommendations, please feel free to reach out if you find additional resources that you deem to be helpful for you or would like a professional’s perspective.
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Come as You Are (Nagoski, 2021)
Come Together (Nagoski, 2025)
Attached. (Levine and Heller, 2012)
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (Gottman and Silver, 2015)
Tell Me What You Want (Justin Lehmiller, PhD, 2020)
The State of Affairs (Esther Perel, 2018)
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If you’re the nerdy kind.
Lindeman, Thuen, and Rune Zahl Olsen (2025). Participants' Experiences With the In-Person and Online Gottman Seven Principles Program for Couples Enhancement: A Qualitative Study
Chadwick and van Anders (2017). Do Women’s Orgasms Function as a Masculinity Achievement for Men?
Michael N. Pham, Todd K. Shackelford (2013). Oral sex as mate retention behavior
Haupert, M. L., Gesselman, A. N., Moors, A. C., Fisher, H. E., & Garcia, J. R. (2017). Prevalence of Experiences With Consensual Nonmonogamous Relationships: Findings From Two National Samples of Single Americans. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy
Jankowiak, W.R., Volsche, S.L. and Garcia, J.R. (2015), Is the Romantic–Sexual Kiss a Near Human Universal?. AMERICAN ANTHROPOLOGIST
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Relationships:
Anatomy, Sexual Health and Education:
Intimacy:
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